More Than You Bargained For


Have you ever gotten a gift that was pretty good at face value but then it ended up being way more than you bargained for? You can underestimate something when you don’t understand the full story—like Christmas.

What can come from a manger? 
It was more than what people bargained for. It was a baby, but it was grace in flesh. He became a man who healed people, telling religious people they were wrong, and telling prostitutes that they were redeemed. Salvation is more than you bargained for. You get His grace, His favor, et cetera, not just fire insurance.

Matthew 1:18-25 ESV

Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. And her husband Joseph, being just a man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly. But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet: “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means, God with us). When Joseph woke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him: he took his wife, but knew her not until she had given birth to a son. And he called his name Jesus.


When God puts something in your spirit, it will not return void. This story sounds ridiculous. When Jesus shows up, everything changes. What we believe is ridiculous. We can’t judge Scientologists about what they believe because we believe some crazy stuff too. Can you imagine how ridiculous this would have been for Mary?

• Some people reject and run. Please, give God give at least as much time as you gave the world.
• If God gives you a dream, you should be showing signs. When Jesus invades your life — not church or preaching — extreme change follows. It’s not gonna feel normal to give with faith instead of giving with expectation of receiving back or to serve even though it won’t be seen.

What will you allow to develop in 2013? Will you allow it to come full-term? This will be the year you go all the way through it, even the morning sickness. When you do things that are new or if you haven’t done them in a while, it will feel ridiculous. Remember how ridiculous it was to worship in public the first time? But then you realize it’s more ridiculous not to. It’s funny how your appetite changes. Can you promise that when God puts something ridiculous in your way, you’ll see it fullterm? This is not a polaroid, but a movie. We go through seasons that change. Just when you think you’ve got God figured out, he switches it up on you.


1)  EXPECT MORE PROBLEMS — But the promise often lies within it.

Matthew 1:20 ESV

But as he considered these things, BEHOLD, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit…

• “as he considered these things” = “as he was going crazy”

• “Behold” means to highly elevate above all else

• Joseph was going down the wrong thought train. You need a “behold” moment. You think you need a divorce? Behold! You’ve built this marriage on the rock and nothing can put it under.

• If it’s God’s will, it’ll be His bill. If he gives you a job, He’ll help you keep it.

•People would’ve thought, “What an inconvenient pregnancy.” — BUT! There’s a promise in that pregnancy.

DECLARATION: Be more consumed with Christ than you are with the current crisis in your life.  • Don’t ever be so heavy with grief and pressure that you tell God, “Not now! Behold later.”

2) EXPECT MORE POWER — If God said it, you can believe it.
Some people may be battling discouragement or spiritual fatigue. What you’re doing isn’t just a good idea, it’s a God idea.

Matthew 1:21 ESV

“…She WILL bear a son, and you SHALL call His name Jesus, for He WILL save His people from their sins.”

• These are promises. “She will… you shall… he will…”

• There’s power in what God said.

If God’s power is flowing through your life it should change your perspective. 

• Joseph was going about it the wrong way—“I’ve got no job, no food, etc.” But when God shows up, he realizes how much power he has.

• You have power to stand right here. Problems that used to give you fear, will now give you faith.

• Get a little bolder. “I know I got a bad report from the doctor…” but then you remember, “Wait, God is my healer.” Or your problem may turn out to be just a closed door but God created the building.

• God has given you more power than you think. • God changed your profile with his power.

• Mary was a nobody who became a somebody. Before you were just a proud, arrogant person or a jerk, but after Jesus, you’re a sinner saved by grace—you have authority, you’re forgiven, etc.

• You may be waiting for things you could do right so you could change your own profile. But Jesus already did everything. Your profile has already been changed.

3)  EXPECT MORE PEACE — If God is in it, you will walk through it.

Matthew 1:23 ESV

“Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means God with us).

• The name of Jesus literally means “peace”.

Bette Midler had it wrong. God’s watching us from a distance? No. God doesn’t want to be distant. That’s why he sent his Son. The man upstairs came downstairs. A lot of people mistake peace with comfort. Peace is the ability to walk through fear and uncomfortability to do what God wants you to do. Jesus had peace while he was suffering on the cross. A lot of people want understanding. What if you could understand it?

Beware of Christians who always have an explanation. Don’t let someone put a label on something that God did not. Ask God for peace that surpasses understanding. The peace of God will pull you through it no matter what’s going on. When Jesus shows up, He brings peace with Him. Whenever you see pain, know that there’s more peace coming. Whenever you see tragedy, there’s more triumph coming from God because he’ll never let the world have the last word. Logic doesn’t get you through. The peace of God does.